I have been married to an anesthesiologist for 15 years his 2nd marriage. Unless you have some super amazing other dating prospect there isn't a huge reason to cut this relationship off now. Moved homes 5 times in that time. Or maybe he's like me and would rather just collapse into bed with you when he gets home. I met this girl a while ago and we really hit it off. Mormonism is an all-in religion. Sexuality is the enemy of romance, and romance is amazing. I even had someone tell me I should know better than to marry a nomo.
I let her know it's not healthy to expect someone else to change - we can only control ourselves and not others. I still find it an endearing quality in my spouse, though I miss him sorely. The important thing is doing it together. That response made her very happy. Take extra care to communicate your needs once a week- don't do it every day.
This can be a good way to learn more about your personalities. The one I met was full of himself, a slob, and really not that great to women. In my experience, life-long member, many Mormons have difficulty thinking outside the box, and putting forth effort to inclue and love. As a fellow man married to a female Dr. Fifty years later, not one of her 3 children, her dozen grandchildren or her numerous great grandchildren is an active member of the LDS church. I truly believe that if a man cheats he was always inclined to do so.
It has been very difficult to reconcile our two expectations, hopes and dreams. However, you might be lucky to not have the experience I did. We planned the funeral around his work and call schedule. Rights of all genders are supported here. Dating a doctor is a huge motivator for me. That said, there are also a lot of pricks inside the church, who fully deserve membership.
